can we please destroy this idea that a person has to talk to you every minute of every day to like you
texting all day is not natural
force communication all hours of the day is not natural
When you attract a partner at your lowest point, you are attracting a partner who findsyour low-point desirable. This is not ideal.
Michele O’Mara, PhD (via infjperspective)
I disagree. I met my partner at my lowest point. I was alone, and lost, and hurt, and did everything I could think of to push him away.
But he saw me at my worst, and still wanted me. I attracted him at my lowest point. He found my low point desirable not because it was low, but simply because it was me.
It was ideal. He saw the absolute darkest, blackest, bleakest parts of my soul. And he loved every single piece of me.
This means that I never had to be afraid of him finding out some hidden aspect of who I am, and him not being able to handle me. It meant I could lean on him, and depend on him, and whisper all of my hurts, hopes, and fears and know he wouldn’t recoil.
He saw me at my lowest, and has helped me rise above it.
anyone ever consider the fact that queer, trans, and poc on tumblr are so angry because this is the one place we can vent without being